Comments on: The teenage abortion issue

By: Skye

Skye — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 23:20:30 +0000

Ok I have to say alot of you are very rude. Everyone has the right to there own beliefs. This may have been posted in January but I had to leave a comment.

You can’t just accuse people like that! You say that people are being childish and can’t spell. What does spelling have to do with this matter? WHat has spelling got to do with our lives? Do you actually think that you can say your spelling is bad so your childish or your stupid or shouldn’t be posting on here. That in itself is childish.

My father can’t spell he is dislexic and I’m not brilliant at it either. But that does not mean he’s childish. He’s 45 and a well respected verternary Surgen.

My point is all of you who are saying people are killing there babies and are childish should look at themselves before typing. Its the kind of things that happen in the playground. Like if a little child was trying to say something and the other kids said “Your not important you’ve got stupid hair”. Well your saying “your not important you can’t even spell!”

And about girls shouldn’t open their legs you sound like those old grandmas you get in a scary movie. It is up to girls if they have sex or do anything sexual. Yes girls are having sex way too young but look at the sociaty around us. I know they have to deal with the consquenses but should a child really be born if they are not wanted. Its not even a child yet it is cells that will grow into a child.

By the way I am 18 years old and 5 weeks pregnant, no I am not having an abortion I am having my baby adopted but I know I have to be emotionally strong to do this and most younger girls could not do it. I was on the pill at the time and I am 18 and mature enough to enjoy and love sex. Why shouldn’t I, it is a beautiful thing.

Have your beliefs but don’t mock others. We are all our own person. NEVER TELL PEOPLE WHAT TO DO!!!! Anyone who does, is the child here!!!

By: Lynda

Lynda — Wed, 09 Jan 2008 15:24:51 +0000

In all those statements,not once did I hear the word God or faith. Abortion is and always will be murder in the eyes of God. It says in Jerimiah that the Lord knew us when we were made, and although many of you beleive it is just a few cells that can not survive without the human body, it is still murder. Our lives are predestined,and everything happens for a reason. That baby you kill might be the person who discovers the cure for cancer or the cure for sickle cell, or the next president. There is no right time and reason to have an abortion. Partial birth abortion is the joke of the year. They say they do it to save the mother, but any women who has had a baby knows if you give birth, and all that is left to push out is the head, that is the easiest part. If we waited until the child was born and then stuck a pair of scissors in the back of the childs skull and sucked out their brains, that would be murder. It seems to me that what this world needs is to redevelop our moral beleifs and start living a decent life. We must turn back to the Lord and start to heal. It does not matter if you call Him, Allah, Mohammad, God, or what ever, just know that if you are going to engage in sexual activity, then use the loop, a condom, the pill, spermacide, or what ever else you need to do to prevent the pregnacy. Once you are pregnant, you choice is no longer yours. You have now created another human being and as I said in the beginning, that is murder. You might poke fun at this entry, and you might even call me a crack pot, but I have been on the other side and it is something that will haunt you for the rest of your life unless you ask forgiveness from the Almighty. Only then will you find peace. I have 2 children and 4 grandchildren. I also am raising my granddaughter. I would not have wanted my daughter to have an abortion, for any reason. Abortion is a hot topic and I know there are alot of pros and cons to everything, but not when a human being is at stake.Quit thinking about your own gratification and think with the brain the good Lord gave you.There are other resources to help you and many agencies will help with the transition and adoption issues. There are agencies out there that will help with medical, food, and housing. If you think about the abortion before you do it and have informative information, I beleive you would change your mind. There are alot of people out there who for one reason or another, can not have children, instead of killing your child, give it to someone who wants a baby. Remember, abortion does not make you unpregnant, it just makes you the mother of a dead baby!!!!!!

By: Anastasia

Anastasia — Fri, 14 Dec 2007 18:37:50 +0000

I look at this website. In a way i am very disturbed, but what can i say people have their own thoughts, and have a right to their own opinion. But then again opinions are just like assholes every body has one. I am seventeen and i will be eighteen in janurary and i am old enough to make my own decisions. this labor day the unthinkable hapened, i figured out i was pregnant. I really thought i was in love but when i told my boyfriend the news the first word he said was abortion. Now i was always against abortion but i had no money,no moral support,no future. so i did not want to bring a baby into this world. that day i threw up before the termanation. and it has onl been a couple of months since then i still cant sleep at night. i hope god can forgive me and also my unborn child. in away i think abortion is wrong because it is an creation from god and doesnt deserve dying. but it is my body and would have been my child not yours so you cant judge me i did what i felt was right. my boyfriend is now my ex boyfriend because he is very selfish and didnt care about me at all he just did not want to have another baby momma. it hurts so bad just thinking about it. so instead of judging me feel my hurt and pray for me. THANKS FOR READING

By: hayley

hayley — Mon, 03 Dec 2007 10:40:30 +0000

im 16 im pregnant i have been with my boyfreind for 2 years im so confused and dont no what to do.i have listen to your comments you lot ov dont no what to do. there is no point arguin on here this is the internet and you make other people judgmental about you i study hairdressing in the uk and i am goin on to do my a levals in science im not letting this baby keep me down i have just found out im pregnant and my pearnets dont no you cant say girls are this girls are that in my experiance its not aways the girls thought and for another woman to say girls should stop spreading her legs that just sexist towards her self yes i may only be 16 but i talk more sense then most of you and your argumets fell free to email me xsexyx247@hotmail.com thank you

By: Sam

Sam — Sun, 10 Jun 2007 15:36:24 +0000

And how do you know that they weren’t protected?
CONTRACEPTIVES FAIL.
If we were go back to illegal abortions, women would still continue to get them.
It would result to back-alley abortions again and I think we all know how disturbing those were..

“Your just killing someone who could be something in history in the future?”
Wow. First of all, work on your grammar. Second of all, if that is what you are concerned about, then you should really do some thinking.

By: brianiz fuckin sexy

brianiz fuckin sexy — Wed, 06 Jun 2007 03:45:58 +0000

abortion is ridickulous like thats a person an everyone deserves to live and your just killing someone who could be something in history in the future and i think people should go to jail for it and thats there fault that they werent protected theres no one to blame but your self period.

By: Sam

Sam — Tue, 05 Jun 2007 21:53:58 +0000

It is no one’s right to tell someone else how they should live their life.
If they do not want to have the baby, then so be it. It is not like it is anyone else’s choice anyways, it is the woman who is pregnants’ choice. Everyone has a different oppinion, and everyone will do what they want. Saying things like “the baby has the heartbeat at that point” probably isn’t going to change that persons mind.

But I will say that there should definately be a time limit as to when you can have the abortion. Some people get it at around 4 or 5 months which is kind’ve distubing if you ask me.

By: jimmy

jimmy — Tue, 05 Jun 2007 07:13:21 +0000

i agree, no one should force their beliefs on you and try to control the way you do things. which is kind of weird because thats a belief itself. but i think everyone can agree they don’t like it when people force stuff on them.

also, every time a male masturbates he kills like 5,000 potential lives

By: Chrisitne

Chrisitne — Tue, 05 Jun 2007 04:39:07 +0000

Having an abortion should only be used in situations of rape/abuse or when it would kill the mother. I am almost six months prego and looked into having an abortion when I found out. What they do is awful and by the time most women find out the baby has a heartbeat, no matter what you think it is alive and it is a human. I love my child already I gave up school and my freedom to have this baby because it is a gift from God. I am so happy I decided to keep it and no matter what I will raise it to the best of my abilites. No one is ever ready for a baby but when it comes it comes. You should be women enough to step up and take responsiblilty. You are a very selfish person if you think about your own happiness over that of your child. Every one is going to make their own desicion but hopefully you will make the right one. No carrer, school, party, or anything eles is more important than a baby. This may be your only chance to ever have a child you never know. You shold get an ultrasound before you have an abortion and see what you are killing. Not only are you killing another human but a piece of you is dieing with it. It will always haunt you.

By: Sam

Sam — Tue, 05 Jun 2007 00:07:50 +0000

Abortion would be neither a “moral dilemma” nor a question of murder if people stopped framing the abortion issue in moral terms.
Abortion should instead be viewed as a sometimes necessary choice a woman must make in order to be in charge of her life.
Why should someone else’s beliefs dictate another person’s happiness?
Every child should be a wanted child